“In this book, you will find a straightforward guide to selecting a partner,” Quiñones notes in her Introduction. “While I recommend considering these criteria, they are not a guarantee of success of happiness in love,” but can help “avoid the negative consequences of choosing blindly.”

The first chapter asks readers to “assess [their] readiness for a relationship,” aiming for emotional independence. “When you are emotionally independent, you can live without your partner, but you recognize that you prefer to be with them.” The chapter ends with questionnaires prompting reflection on past relationships, personal beliefs about love, etc. These can be oddly random. In a question about turn-offs, for instance, the answers listed are, “a. conceited; b. quiet; c. unattractive; d. passive; e. without money; f. short.”

Subsequent chapters examine a wide array of topics, including how family dynamics affect people’s later relationships; where to look for a partner, including the pros and cons of meeting someone online; how to know if you’re in love (“the first thing that happens is that the person starts to occupy your thoughts”) and more. The author also discusses gender norms and sexuality with sensitivity and an open mind.

Readers will find the advice straightforward and uncomplicated. Particularly illuminating is a list of “Reasons Not to Marry.”

Unfortunately, the writing can be rambling and repetitive, even sometimes baffling (e.g, “When attraction arises, so those the blindfold over your eyes”), and the author occasionally makes sweeping statements without citing proof: “Women are not the only ones who suffer spousal abuse; it’s just that fewer men admit to being mistreated by their partners.”

Overall, readers will find some insightful tips here, and Love’s GPS handles sensitive topics with care, but further editing to create a more polished work would greatly enhance this offering’s appeal.

Also available as an ebook.